Let’s Talk About Self Care

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women Everywhere…how are you doing with self care? There are several ways to approach this topic so let’s dive into a few.

First let’s talk about Personal Self Care.

Are you making space for you and the things you like? Do you even know what you like?

This weekend set aside some time for you to explore you! Do things that you love as well as somethings new. As you’ve grown you might find that your taste has changed in multiple ways. Go out on your own and try something unusual. If you find that you go out consistently, try staying in and practice solitude. Dig deeper into who you are.

Actively working on your personal self care feeds your soul. It’s a way to pour back into you refilling your cup. It’s a way to reset and refresh.

Now let’s touch on Emotional Self Care.

When the work week has begins, for many of us, it brings about feelings of anxiety, stress, and frustration. These feelings might come about because we might have to interact with challenging personalities or work through a difficult project. Whatever the issue, we must keep in mind that our perspectives and how we deal with these emotions have a huge impact on the trajectory of our week. Developing emotional intelligence as a means of coping and moving through each of these situations is key.

Actively working on your emotional health means improving your confidence, stability, attitude, your overall health and much more! The more allow yourself to feel and work through your feelings internally before acting out irrationally or being consumed by them, the more balanced and productive you’ll become. .

The next time you feel frustrated or any emotion, pause and recognize it. Name the feeling and feel it. Next, ask yourself why you feel that way. Then move on to finding a solution.

This process of building emotional intelligence isn’t always easy and it can be quite uncomfortable, but the more you practice it, the quicker and clearer your skills of moving through the process becomes! Not only will you become more self aware, you’ll also recognize how to gracefully maneuver around the emotions of others.

Let’s touch on Physical Self Care.

Are you practicing self discipline when it comes to your physical health?  .

Actively working on your physical health improve just about all areas of you. It increases energy, improves clarity, improves your attitude, and your overall health! The more you give to your body, the more your body gives back to you!

Don’t put off your self care for another time or day. You can start now! The world can wait a few minutes while you exercise some self love. Go ahead and give yourself what YOU need.

in unconditional love,

j.infini

in harmony

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women Everywhere…are you in living in harmony? As this week begins many feel the stress and strain of continuing the monotonous cycle of the commute to clock in. This recurring stress and dread is a clear indication of not living in harmony. It’s clear that change is needed.

     We’ve all heard the saying “do what you love and love what you do.” It makes perfect sense, especially when we look at our current situation. The less we enjoy or like what it is we do the more stressed we feel and we all know that stress can be detrimental to our livity. Stress brings in the illest of ills. But we all have a choice to make. We can stay under the pressing thumb of stress or we can move into alignment with our purpose and what brings us joy. The decision isn’t always easy. It may come with periods of struggle, but more times than not, we find that the struggle to move into harmony is well worth everything. Find what brings you harmony and make every effort to move towards it in order to live in agreement with what you love. 

in unconditional love,

j.

leaping into the unknown

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women Everywhere…what is it about the unknown that you fear? Take a moment and think on that? Do you fear diving deep into the unknown parts of yourself because you’ll come face to face with parts of yourself that you don’t like? Are you afraid of the possibility of pain or finding and getting lost in unbelievable pleasure? Is it the possibility of success or failure? Is it fear of disappointment in finding that the foundation of your beliefs are actually false? What is it?

Now that you’ve asked yourself the hard questions and possibly uncovered some answers, move into the understanding that in order to move out of the fear of the unknown you must bravely dive into it! Stop holding yourself back from experiencing life’s beautiful gifts because of your fear. Face it and jump!  

in unconditional love,

j.infini

life is art

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women Everywhere…this is the time to unleash all that you are! Refrain from restraining your true voice, your true light, your true self! If is your birthright to step into yourself fully and live out loud.

You have your voice, hands, sight, insight and all other parts of you to create the life you desire. Widen your view and step into your true vibrance. It’s all waiting for you, but you must stop waiting for it to just happen. Stop waiting for someone else to do it for you. Stop waiting, stop waiting, stop waiting! 

You have all the tools you need to create your masterpiece so get to work. Grab your brushes and fearlessly splatter some paint on your canvas! Turn the music up loud and move to it unabashedly! Release all that holds you back from creating and living the life you want. Release the fear of making mistakes in this life because the beauty of this art, is that there are no mistakes. Jump in and start creating! 

In unconditional love,

j.infini

be the rainbow

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women…you have the beautiful opportunity to be the sunshine in someone’s life today so go ahead and be that! Be the abundant being of unconditional love that you are! Your smile, your gift, your generosity, your presence could be the very thing that keeps someone away from the ledge today. It could even be the very thing that keeps you alive today! You might find your calling in this message today.

Now here’s the bonus…the beauty in your actions of unconditional love will be poured back into you! Imagine that! Whatever you focus on, whatever you pour out, whatever you exude is what you manifest and return to you multiplied. Choose to be the rainbow and exude your vibrancy on this cloudy day! 

 

in unconditional love,

j.infini