evaluating relationships

Hey Mammas, Mommies to be, Women and Lovers of Women…this past year there’s been a strong focus on relationships, especially within these most recent months. 

If you’re currently questioning a relationship or someone new has entered your life, take a moment and evaluate how your energy feels when you’re in the presence of this person. This applies to platonic and or romantic relationships. Even right now as you think on him or her how is your body reacting. Pay attention to how your soul lights up or retracts. 

Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Make sure to tell your ego to have a seat so it doesn’t interfere with your truth. Get honest with yourself and feel the YES, or the NO. Your answer is there! Don’t ignore it!

Now let’s dig a little deeper. For those of you feeling agitation, or other negative energy within a relationship ask yourself “where does that agitation stem from?” Where is the root? Sometimes your soulmate or the best thing for you is right in front of you, but you’re blocked from seeing the big picture clearly. The agitation you feel might stem from some past traumas that you haven’t healed. You’ve got some baggage that you haven’t unpacked yet. Get real with yourself and find out if the negative energy stems from within you. Some might be too prideful to admit the issue, but keep in mind that You might just be blocking yourself from the best thing right in front of you. Dig deeper and find the roots. 

in unconditional love,

j.infini